'You are alone,' she commented, 'and that's okay, but you're not balanced. You don't have a man to balance you. And inside, you don't yet know the power of woman.' Sadness suddenly flooded me; I turned my gaze to the floor, embarrassed. What was Winona touching, way down inside of me? Whose therapy was it anyway? I replied with a challenge, 'Winona, how do you know that I am not in a relationship with a man?' 'the Spirits told me.' She grinned.